Hola family and friends!!!!!!!!!!!!
What a wonderful time it was this Thanksgiving. Now it's onto Christmas!!!!!!! Ahhhhhh✋π»πππ» I will tell you all about this wonderful Thanksgiving holiday and the wonderful adventures that I had!!! Could you send me some more pictures? I need to see all your beautiful, shining, happy faces! Sometimes pictures can describe things better than words so please just send me pictures of what you're doing throughout the week. This goes for anyone that gets my emails. If you don't want to email me (and trust me I totally get it) send a picture! I absolutely LOVE pictures.
So this week was great and a ton of fun! I learned a lot of lessons this week as well! So Tuesday we got to do my favorite thing!!!!! Service!!!!!! Also my favorite kind of service- we got to cut some wood!!! I was a little disappointed when I got there because the wood was really bad looking wood (not nice even wood you want to cut but it was all uneven and misshaped. In my first area we cut wood all the time and those were the prettiest looking pieces of wood I have ever cut. Sadly these weren't too appealing and were difficult to cut nicely but I still enjoy doing the work and being there. The ax someone brought wasn't very sturdy and the ax head kept coming loose from the handle so that was a red flag! There wasn't much wood to cut but it was good to get the feel again. My companion cut wood for his first time on his mission and looked very natural. He must have had some prior experience. The member we were doing service for was impressed with our skills. The lady needed the wood for heat so we were glad to lend a helping hand! Service is always good!
We then got to see Sister N who has been coming to church pretty regularly. She actually will be reactivated this next month if she comes twice so fingers crossed!!!! We are so pumped because she's been striving to go to he temple and has gone through the temple preparation class. She just needs to get to church this next month and I think she will be good to go! So exciting! I hope I'll still be here for that!! Transfer boards come out this week so I hope I am staying here during Christmas. I would be soooo sad if I left before because it would be so hard to say goodbye and leave right before Christmas. I asked President to keep me here. hahaha WE also were able to see Sister N's son, E. He is a fun kid and he loves having us over. He's 4 years old and is the cutest kid! That kid is a girl magnet- all the girls love E. He is very friendly to everyone and especially to his teachers at school. Sister N and her sister are amazing mothers. They try their best to raise their kids right and help them in every way they can. I've met some incredible women on my mission that truly sacrifice all they have for their children (whether they are single moms or not). There really have been such selfless women out here that I have met. I have deep respect for their hard work and love they give their families. What a blessing these daughters of God are!
We were also able to see George S. He is an older gentleman we have been trying to see for a while now and we finally were able to see him!!!!!!! We talked to him for a little awhile and were able to catch up. We tried a few other people that day but to no avail- they weren't home.
Thanksgiving Eve we went to the Stake Center to attend a Thanksgiving event . There were many different religions that participated. Each shared a little about their church and what they were about. The theme for his year was "Home is where the heart is." It was really neat. My favorite part of the evening was when a black Baptist preacher got up and was like, "We need to have a little bit of church up in here!" He began to get excited and gave a great sermon. I really enjoyed his sermon!
As I think about the women I have met on my mission, I am humbled by how much I lack in selflessness and dedication. They are independent and strong. What wonderful examples they are to me. I am grateful to have a wonderful mother like you, mom. You have had to put up with me my whole life. You sacrificed your desires and your wants and wishes and put mine before yours. You truly are such a powerful, strong woman. I've told you before but I will say it again, Mom, you remind me of Emma Smith. You both are loving and caring wives and mothers. You never gave up nor lost hope through trials but kept pressing forward in faith, always pushing through, clinging onto the arm of God as He helped you through them. Though I don't understand all you did for us, I am grateful (and ever will be grateful) for the blessing you have been to me in my life and for the ways your talents have blessed me. Mom, I remember how you always wanted me to improve in all areas of my life; to continue to work harder and be the best that I could. You never gave up on me! I will never forget my Sophomore year of high school when I was doing poorly in school. You didn't let my circumstance of a broken leg and surgery get the better of me. You always wanted me to rise above my situation(s). You told me that I could do it! I remember when I made the choice to work at it by improving my study habits and doing better on my tests. I began to improve (in spite of yet another break and surgery) my Junior year and by my Senior year, I was able to see that I could be a good student and that I wasn't dumb. You helped me to learn that I needed to work hard and do my best and as a result, I did great on my tests, had a great GPA and got a scholarship. You helped me mom to look past my physical limitations and not have them define my situation but rise above and overcome my circumstances. That is a blessing you gave me! Thank you mom.
Dad, I can't forget you! You play just as much as a role as mom. You both together make the greatest team but more importantly- together we make the greatest family! Dad, what great advice and help you've given me throughout my life. You know one thing I've noticed more and more since I've served my mission is that you are not judgmental. You don't look at a person's weaknesses or look at the bad things a person has done and define that person by those things. You want people to be the best they can be but you don't ask anyone to be different. You accept them as they are. You never compared us sons. I didn't feel you viewed me any less
than Tyler or Kyle. Even though I wasn't the most skilled athlete, or the biggest, the smartest or the fastest , you never viewed me as less than then. You just wanted me to be the best Trevor that I could be. That means so much to me because my whole life I have tried to become like them but I feel I fall short and I get discouraged. I sometimes don't feel I will ever be as good as my older brothers. I'll never forget the time
As I think about the women I have met on my mission, I am humbled by how much I lack in selflessness and dedication. They are independent and strong. What wonderful examples they are to me. I am grateful to have a wonderful mother like you, mom. You have had to put up with me my whole life. You sacrificed your desires and your wants and wishes and put mine before yours. You truly are such a powerful, strong woman. I've told you before but I will say it again, Mom, you remind me of Emma Smith. You both are loving and caring wives and mothers. You never gave up nor lost hope through trials but kept pressing forward in faith, always pushing through, clinging onto the arm of God as He helped you through them. Though I don't understand all you did for us, I am grateful (and ever will be grateful) for the blessing you have been to me in my life and for the ways your talents have blessed me. Mom, I remember how you always wanted me to improve in all areas of my life; to continue to work harder and be the best that I could. You never gave up on me! I will never forget my Sophomore year of high school when I was doing poorly in school. You didn't let my circumstance of a broken leg and surgery get the better of me. You always wanted me to rise above my situation(s). You told me that I could do it! I remember when I made the choice to work at it by improving my study habits and doing better on my tests. I began to improve (in spite of yet another break and surgery) my Junior year and by my Senior year, I was able to see that I could be a good student and that I wasn't dumb. You helped me to learn that I needed to work hard and do my best and as a result, I did great on my tests, had a great GPA and got a scholarship. You helped me mom to look past my physical limitations and not have them define my situation but rise above and overcome my circumstances. That is a blessing you gave me! Thank you mom.
Dad, I can't forget you! You play just as much as a role as mom. You both together make the greatest team but more importantly- together we make the greatest family! Dad, what great advice and help you've given me throughout my life. You know one thing I've noticed more and more since I've served my mission is that you are not judgmental. You don't look at a person's weaknesses or look at the bad things a person has done and define that person by those things. You want people to be the best they can be but you don't ask anyone to be different. You accept them as they are. You never compared us sons. I didn't feel you viewed me any less
than Tyler or Kyle. Even though I wasn't the most skilled athlete, or the biggest, the smartest or the fastest , you never viewed me as less than then. You just wanted me to be the best Trevor that I could be. That means so much to me because my whole life I have tried to become like them but I feel I fall short and I get discouraged. I sometimes don't feel I will ever be as good as my older brothers. I'll never forget the time
after I got injured my senior year and we were talking about my knee. I didn't know if I could continue to play football. You showed me the Rocky Balboa quote about success and you told me to do what I could and whatever decision I made, you would be okay with it. You taught me, dad, that I could rise above my physical limitations, even when it seemed impossible. You helped me to learn that I could do hard things. I learned that with God's help I could do hard things and miracles could happen because I practiced that week. Then when game day came and I blew out my knee (and needed surgery once again) you never said anything about being disappointed in me or that you thought of me as a failure. You kept telling me how proud you were of me. In fact, I felt like I was a failure because I never completed a season of football or became the football player that everyone thought I would be. I was embarrassed and ashamed. But you never looked at me like that. You see saw me for who am and not who I am not. Thank you, Dad.
I guess since it was Thanksgiving and I pondered on my blessings, I wanted to let you both know how I thankful I am for the blessings of having a mom and dad like you.
On Thanksgiving Day, I played in the Ward Turkey Bowl. I put my hair in a mohawk and then wore my white
headband- it looked pretty cool. I was going extreme!!! The guys all thought it was funny. This Turkey Bowl was fun but nothing is going to compare to the McKeesport Turkey Bowl with all those really good black athletes! It was great getting that touchdown and being known as Gronk! Still, this was a game with a good turnout of ward members. I did have a ton of fun and everyone was there just to have a good time so
that was good! I got a couple of touchdowns and some good runs. We played two-hand touch which was good because last year in McKeesport we played tackle with the black guys and I was pretty worried I was going to get injured. This year, I didn't have that fear which is good! After the game we washed up and went to dinner. We just visited members that day! We went to the L's and ate. We just chatted with them (as you know, I love to sit and talk and laugh). Later, we did the same thing at the A's. lol Bro. A told some cool stories.
headband- it looked pretty cool. I was going extreme!!! The guys all thought it was funny. This Turkey Bowl was fun but nothing is going to compare to the McKeesport Turkey Bowl with all those really good black athletes! It was great getting that touchdown and being known as Gronk! Still, this was a game with a good turnout of ward members. I did have a ton of fun and everyone was there just to have a good time so
that was good! I got a couple of touchdowns and some good runs. We played two-hand touch which was good because last year in McKeesport we played tackle with the black guys and I was pretty worried I was going to get injured. This year, I didn't have that fear which is good! After the game we washed up and went to dinner. We just visited members that day! We went to the L's and ate. We just chatted with them (as you know, I love to sit and talk and laugh). Later, we did the same thing at the A's. lol Bro. A told some cool stories.
This week we actually weren't able to meet with any of our regular people because they were all out of town. So we found things to do and met some new people and just tried staying busy by setting up appointments. We will see how that carries into this upcomig week! I love you guys. Take care. Bye!!!!!!!!!♥️♥️♥️♥️
Elder Cahoon the Baboon
Elder Cahoon the Baboon